A few weeks ago, my bridesmaids (aka my besties) threw me the most perfect baby shower. It was after a long hesitation on my part that the shower was done. When I found out I was pregnant I didn’t want to participate in anything that made me feel left out or sad pre pregnancy. I didn’t want to rejoice in things that caused me difficulty in the past. But, then I got to thinking. I thought, “This baby has been anticipated for 3 years now. We’ve gone through so much heartache to conceive her. Our persistence, our love, and our hope should be celebrated.” And since my lovely friends and family were so excited for us, they wouldn’t take no for an answer anyway. I’m glad they didn’t, because it turned out to be such a happy day for me.
The theme was a surprise, and it was perfect. They know I love crafting, so made it a crafting/sewing theme with one of my favorite cuisines: Southern home cooking. There weren’t any traditional games, just a crafting station where people could design onesies, bibs, and headbands.
The food and drink were amazing too! All of it was home made and delicious. I never knew what talented chefs my friends were. Fried chicken, mac n cheese, pulled pork sammies, apple pie pops, deviled eggs, lavender lemonade…I ate a lot.
And of course a “cute as a button” red velvet cake!
Every detail was so well thought out down to the favors, which were adorable homemade button cookies.
I feel so lucky to be able to have this experience at all. Some days I get hit with a wave of extreme disbelief. I can’t believe we are only a few weeks away from having a child. This day made it feel so real, and to celebrate our future baby with all the people that have been there through our long journey to parenthood made it even more special. This heart is so thankful!
